I’m away at university and when I was home I was always the one that had to be kind to my mother. I’m making plans to come home and I had my sister on the phone. I made a joke to her that I was mum’s emotional support but for some reason, my sister was on speaker (Which she never does) and my mom heard the joke and was upset. I hate upsetting my mom and I feel horrible. I’m just mad at myself.