I wish I could travel back in time to break up my husband and his ex wife. His kids (grown adults now) have so many issues and refuse to do anything with themselves. We’ve given up almost everything trying to keep them from f****** up, and I am so tired of it. I want my house, my life, and my daughters life back. But I don’t want to say anything because it’s his children and I don’t want to seem like the controlling new wife.