I am a Canadian girl from Alberta, I am a lesbian. I married a 43 year old American man for the money and lifestyle and moving to the US. I was sure I could deal with it. For these four years I was OK being a housewife and having two kids. With kids we moved to the suburbs and settled in as one more at home mother with little kids. I was okay until I met this woman at mother’s day out who is living with her wife and had a two year old. She looks at me and says out loud she is gay and yes she is the biological mom.

I said nothing. I feel real bad about keeping my mouth shut. Should I have told her I’m gay too?