i have a bf and besides that 4 guys in my phone saying they’re in love w. me, and since my best friend (f) confessed she shares an attraction to me (f) i’ve been thinking about her. normally, i don’t even like girls. one things we originally bonded over was our struggle getting along with girls. But we mutually enjoyed getting attention from several guys at school, luckily we don’t like the same type of men at all. no overlap. one night a long while back we were having wine and watching movies with two guys after class (we are adults) and they proposed a foursome. we never had it. she hooked up with the guy she liked. i had a separate fling with the other, that i liked …. we chickened out, but i think i was only into the 4some idea because i’m curious about her. She’s becoming serious with a man she’s known for years. I’m actually in a relationship with someone she set me up with almost a year ago. today she told me she’s been thinking about it but was scared to bring it up… i wish we left this unsaid though even though there’s relief in knowing the curiosity is mutual, i don’t HAVE to explore it. i’m fine. that’s all.