I’m a little embarrassed to float this out there but I don’t know of anyone i can ask about this truthfully without feeling stupid. My wife has been

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I’m a little embarrassed to float this out there but I don’t know of anyone i can ask about this truthfully without feeling stupid.
My wife has been getting massages once a week for the last year, mostly due to wear and tear on her back from being extremely top heavy. Her masseuse is also a trainer at our gym. He’s got a bodybuilder physique also.
Nothing weird about this except in the last few months a few things have changed.
First, she ALWAYS changes as soon as she gets home and throws her clothes in the washer, saying they have massage oil on them and will get ruined if she doesn’t. B******* because I know massage therapists use neutral oils and gels just for this reason.
Second, she NEVER lets me get close to her when she gets home until she has a shower. Again the massage oil. You’d think the oil would be a plus but she says it irritates her skin if it stays on too long. Again I call b******* for the reason above.
Finally he used to constantly flirt with her at the gym, calling her a fox and a m***. We used to all laugh about it and I felt it was harmless. All of the sudden a few months ago, the flirting completely stops. Weird why would it just stop?
I don’t know if I’m being jealous or paranoid or what but this has been bothering me and I’m not a jealous or paranoid person normally.
Is she cheating?

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