My husband cheated on me last year. I was beyond devastated, shattered. Anyone who’s been cheated on can relate I’m sure. It’s a pain like no other. I never once imagined he would do that to me. But we decided to work through it, a year later and I’m still with him. We’re doing ok. Now here’s the real fucked up part. I was cheating on him too. For 5 months. We only met up a few times but it was constant texting for 5 months straight. All day, every day. I dont know how I can be so hurt knowing what i did was worse. It wasn’t a one time thing. I can’t stop thinking about the other guy. I miss him so much. My husband never found out.
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You don’t deserve to be in a relationship to begin with either.
Just break up with your so-called husband by leaving him a note or through text and go play with your fuck buddy instead.
You know what I’m ok with it. Maybe she was trying to relieve some sexual tension. If my friend needs to have sex I’ll give it to her. Even if I’m married. Why can’t friends have sex without being so taboo if one is married.
Because it’s ok for us to cheat but not our partners.
The real question is, do you love your husband, and want to stay with him? If yes, move on, and do your best to mend things. I don’t suggest confessing to him. I’m in the exact same situation with you, but the roles reversed. My wife cheated, I forgave… but I also cheated and she doesn’t know. We’re good again, and we love each other, and we know it’s for life, so I will live with my guilt as my burden, and not hurt her.