I found my step-daughter’s USB memory card in my bag. She must have dropped it in there accidentally. I asked her in the past “What is on this USB memory card?” and she replied saying “Its stuff for college and photos of movies I like”.
So I believed her. But then recently she said “I am struggling at college. Can you help me?” and, obviously, I said “yes.” So I helped her as much as I can.
Today when found the USB memory card in my bag that she accidentally dropped, I had a look on it to see if she is still struggling.
OMG!! It didn’t JUST have her college work and photos of movies she likes on there. There was also had explicit photos and videos of her and I was in shock to see that. So much that I was shaking, sweating and my heart was pounding.
I am not to sure on what to do.
A: Do I just keep it as a secret and not tell anyone what I saw and just give it back to her?
Or
B: Do give it back to her and try to explain to her why it is wrong to take explicit photos and videos of her self?
Reasons why I can’t make up my mind, cause if I do:
A: She might think it’s normal to take explicit photos and videos of her self and carry on
B: I will lose step-daughter’s in trusting me
What shall i do?
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It’s wrong of you to invade her privacy.
Imma go with A because it’s best to not start trouble and not make her feel bad about herself.
I’m with them ^ it was horrible of you to even look in the first place without her knowing
I mean, you were only looking because you wanted to try and help her. I recommend handing it back to her without letting her know you snooped but, when handing it back bring up how she was struggling and ask if she wants to go over some of the school work she was having issues with
Your step daughter is a dirty slut.
Maybe it’s time for you to man up and take charge of the situation instead of acting like a pussy. That is, unless you want her to get banged up by some bum and get pregnant outside of marriage, which is what will happen next.
Start by confiscating the usb disk and grounding her for a few months.
I would not say anything
DON’T TELL HER! She will never be able to look at you the same again knowing you looked. Hopefully they are just for her own benifit.
Don’t say anything. This is coming from a young adult, I would be MORTIFIED if my dad saw something like that from me. You’re just going to loose her trust.