I’ve had a suspicion about my girlfriend and another guy. I was always suspicious of them texting each other all the time. So one day I decided to check her phone but she had deleted his chat. When I confronted her about it she said she deleted chats to save memory.So I checked his phone and it didn’t disappoint. There were instances of him asking her out and her sending kissy emojis, things like him asking her how hot he looks in a picture, one time she spoke to him about me. It was very flirty .While I feel terrible about my insecurity and having gone through someone’s phone, I’m also still suspicious of them. I Know she loves me but I can’t get over my insecurity. Please help.

P.S when I mentioned something I read in their texts she couldn’t remember it. She usually doesn’t have such a bad memory.