This guy was flirting with me and he looked a bit pretty-boyish… not my usual type but he was cute.

We chatted for a little bit and then he tells me he is Trans and still has his female parts…. I didn’t even know what to say except sorry please excuse me and then leave.

I’m not a snowflake but I feel traumatized. Now I am going to ask guys if they are biologically men ? im just taken aback. And now im wondering if I’ve ever spoken to a transman romantically in the past and just didn’t know, like omg….