I’m 17 and currently in a “relationship” with a 21 year old who I am in a college class with. He is the absolute sweetest guy, he treats me so well and we have so much fun together, but he doesn’t want to define our relationship until I turn 18. I have no idea where his boundaries are and he won’t tell me. Sometimes we’re about to have s**, and then the next day he’ll barely look at me in class. He 100% acts like my boyfriend, he takes me out all the time, I stole his sweater, etc, etc, etc, but he just won’t define anything. I don’t even know if we’re actually exclusive or not and it’s freaking me out. I am terrible with relationships and I just feel like with my fear of commitment and his lack of wanting to actually commit, I’m just gunna freak out and ghost him