Get yourself a submissive male. I was in a similar position to many of you with abusive boyfriends, and I decided I had enough after a girlfriend told me that she was a second generation Dominant.
I listened with fascination and glee as she explained how her mother wore the pants in the family and her father wore the p******. She had a great childhood because she was in charge and her father had to obey both her and her mother.
I didn’t think it would work at first, but I dated a few submissive men. I found one that is right for me and now I finally have the good life that I deserve. I wear the pants and he actually does wear p****** whenever I say he must. I have photos of him in his p****** and other compromising positions and so he isn’t going to rebel. He hands over his pay check and I give him an allowance, which he must account for. He pampers me and services me s******* whenever I demand it. He can’t say no. It’s a great relationship. As for B***, – I punish him often and I don’t give any mercy.