I went to the doctors recently for the first time in years and because I’m 30 they said I should come back for a checkup. So I did and part way through the checkup the doctor told me he was now going to give me a pelvic exam, I really wasn’t expecting it. I had never had a man touch my v***** before because I realized I was lesbian as an early teen and have always dated women. I know its a normal procedure and for the good of my own health but I feel kind of violated and a bit upset about it.