I’m a man and I didn’t start m*********** until I was 21.
I had fooled around with my best friend as a kid, but that was before either of us started puberty. We fooled around by getting naked with each other, playing with our penises, comparing sizes, and would talk about our penises (and other people’s) a lot, etc., but we had never touched each other’s penises for an extended length of time or stroked them. We did hear about men having s** with each other – doing a*** – and we tried this, although it was more like one of us rubbing our c*** in the other’s a** crack. I’m not sure why we never went beyond this. At that age, I learned most of my s***** facts from him. He had learned them from his older brother and sister. Once we started puberty, we stopped fooling around. And I had fooled around by myself plenty during the pre-puberty years as well but never did anything like full m*********** (sustained stroking of my c***) – playing around the house naked, doing funny things with my p**** like sticking it in strange places, etc.
I never did anything with any other guy in high school or college and did not date/have a girlfriend during high school. Sure, I had s***** feelings and fantasies, and especially in college, I got turned on by seeing other guys naked, either in person or in pictures. I have an older brother, but we never caught each other doing s***** things or never talked about s***** things. I think I was a bit ignorant about how to m********* and what pleasure it could have brought me individually. As I’ve described, nobody – no friend or close family member – had ever taught me what to do or described what to do. I recall having wet dreams in high school and college, so I guess that’s the main way my body physically released the s***** energy.
Anyway, I was in college as a senior and somehow (I can’t remember what motivated me or what made me think of it out of the blue one day), I got the idea of stroking my c*** nonstop for a few minutes, and I did it until I came and had an o*****. It wasn’t a total surprise to me, since I knew how people had s** – that a p**** had to be stimulated and after that happened enough, sperm shot out of it. The surprising part wasn’t that my p**** shot out c**, but I guess what was a surprise was the pleasure I could feel to get to that point. It had really just never occurred to me to try it myself and that it could happen to me (I was still a virgin at that time as well). And I guess it had never really occurred to me that other guys (guys I saw in locker rooms or other students like me who lived in my dorm) masturbated. I know I had s***** urges and was a s***** person, albeit maybe as a bit of a late bloomer in terms of feeling those s***** urges, but I had just never thought about a guy taking time alone to stroke his c*** until he came.
I know that some guys discover m*********** and c****** on their own, and they discover it or are taught/told about it early in their teenage years. My discovery of it just happened to be after my teenage years – and even a couple of years after that! Of course, after I discovered it, I didn’t want to stop. It became a daily habit, a fun activity. And I enjoy it until this day as well as s***** i********** (with a woman).
