I took advantage of someone in the worst possible way when I was 10 years old. I don’t remember how old the person was…it happened nearly 20 years ago. I feel like crap, extreme depression and anxiety due to what I did. I’ll never do it again, and I am in therapy for my issues.
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We all did stupid things when we were children. Hopefully, the person will understand that and hopefully they’ve already forgiven you and forgotten about it. But it’s nice of you to still realize it and feel sorry for them. If it’s bothering you to a great extent, I think you should confront them and apologize. They might not remember it, but inside you’ll know that your part was done and you did what you had to do.
T.A.
What you did seems very big and life changing. I am glad you are in therapy to help fix that situation but I can’t help but wonder about the person this was inflicted upon. Are they doing ok? Was there physical harm done onto them? Other than the mental harm of course.
Have you apologised? Maybe there is no apology that can be said. I’m not sure because your confession is limited.
But, i wish you all the best and hope you can fix this for yourself and the person you harmed.
Lilith
Tfou 3aleyk
yeh confront them and get it out of you. It’s beautiful to do that!! Sort of gets it cleared. If it’s tough for you, you can write as a letter to the person and tell them exactly how you feel without necessarily mailing it. And also do something good, like a hobby that makes you feel good with the intent of clearing the past. It’s all about intent! 🙂