Today i cheated on my boyfriend, i don’t know why i did it because i love him. but i couldn’t help it i couldn’t say no to the guy I’ve wanted to date since elementary school. i feel disgusting for doing it, but know i can’t tell him because i don’t want to destroy him. 🙁 i want to cry so hard right now.
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so would you break with your bf because of that guy? does that guy has gf? i actually did the same thing to my ex, but the most ironic thing is that i didn’t feel guilty at all, probably because i didn’t love him anymore. the guy (i’ve liked for 5 years) and i never be together because we don’t stay in the same country, it was the days when he came to my country for business, we met up and the electron between us was charging, even thou we haven’t met for 3.5 years, our heart beat was pounding like mad once we saw each other from a distance, and from that moment, i knew i still have a strong feeling on him…
No to both, I was with him and i felt indifferent but whenever we text i always remember that he’s the guy i wanted to date a couple years ago but my bf is so much better than him in every way i feel horrible
Stop cheating on your boyfriends. If you aren’t mature and responsible enough to date, don’t date. Cheating is disrespectful and very selfish. If you want multiple partners, either enter an open relationship or don’t date. Don’t preach exclusivity and then go off and do the opposite.
T.A.
You choose to cheat on your boyfriend, now you just have to face the consequences. If your boyfriend really counts for you then you have to tell him the soonest as possible. Explain to him that it was an horrible mistake and that you’re feeling guilty. Yes you will destroy him, but that’s the only way to have a chance of keeping him.
You are a filthy whore. Lets be honest. Thats f***ing awful.
Feeling guilty? Huh? I think you know how horrible a person that makes you. Thats what you are feeling, as you should be feeling.
felt good though didn’t it? I love cheating Im addicted to the adrenaline rush
From someone who has been in your place, if there is no chance he will find out, don’t tell him. Deal with your shit, own it, get better, and move on. If you find yourself drawn to cheat again, leave the relationship and be single. No shame in that. One thing that helps is counseling/therapy. Get to the root of your behavior if you find the urge to do it again. Cheating is a moral problem, but like many, may be driven by deeper problems. Deal with your shit before it affects those you love. If you can’t deal with your shit, don’t bring others in close until you can. Finally, once you work on improving, forgive yourself and become wiser from the experience. It is easy to criticize people for their mistakes, but then again we all have our shit that can be deconstructed and used to sabotage us. Reform and change is better than idol guilt.