Okay so here’s the thing. This girl I’m dating is depressed about her weight and I can’t convince her to eat, and she’s throwing up everything she eats. I’m trying to cheer her up, I told her not eating won’t make her lose weight but a diet will, and I told her I’ll do it with her. Nothing works. She’s already done two weight loss surgeries and a million diets, and takes pills and regularly sees doctors. Problem is, I don’t know how to advise her because I’m pretty much in the same situation. I’m barely eating, I can’t look at myself in a mirror. Conclusion, I need help. Not for me, but for her. She’s very unhealthy and not eating is going to take her to hospital within a week and it’s already been around 5 days. Throwing up, even worse. What the Hell am I supposed to tell her?!
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I basically managed to convince her not to throw up by threatening her (I’m not a monster, she’s very stubborn). But she’s gona starve herself anyway…
You can’t make life decisions for other people. She needs help, possibly institutionalized help, and you’re threatening her? You ARE a monster.
Oh wow, thanks for the support bro. Threatening doesn’t necessarily mean with violence. Light bulb. Anyway my way worked. Thanks for nothing xx