okay i need some help… my brother always made fun of a gay dude and showed me how he talks to him on msn…
two days ago… i read teh convo between’em
it turned out that the night before, they were together, they slept together…
it killed me…the words are repeating in my head….”let’s hae another match”…”it was a great first time experience” “you were great i would do it a million times again with you”
it kilsss meeeeeeee:O I’m okay with a dude beeing gay,,, but i just cant immagine my brother beeing like that!
i tried to tell my bf! hedidnt say a thing,,, he was shocked but wasnt there for me:S i wont tell my parent,, i just cant:S
HELP :’/
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first of all, why the fuck did you tell your fucking bf? what does he have to do with anything? don’t do something so stupid like that ever again. and second, don’t do/say anything at all. keep this with you for as long as it takes for your brother to come out. he will tell you soon enough. he just got into it so he needs time to develop. he will come out to you first if he see’s you as an open-minded person. don’t make it obvious that you know! just be cool and always defend homosexuality in front of him the moment you get the opportunity to do so. eventually he will come out to you and you can tell him everything. but until then don’t say anything. oh my god, i still can’t believe you told your boyfriend.
If I were you I wouldn’t say anything since it’s going to affect your brother’s view on the subject. Especially that he’s in a vulnerable stage, just listen to your brother and be there for him. Enjoy yourself, go out for a walk…breathe in and out. Your brother will talk to you when he feels safe. Don’t ruin the trust!!
Zorro
guys i said: I TRIED to tell my bf! i told him abt many shit before about my brother! and he never was there for me! but i would never tell him that he’s gayy!
anyways we always share secrets my brother and i! no one will ever know abt it! i hope he’ll tell me eventually:/ thank you…
what’s with the flag?? i didnt even put it! im lebanese!
okay, good… and stop telling your bf shit about your brother. even if it’s not as important as your brother’s sexual orientation. seriously, the relationship is between you and the guy, not your brother and him (although that might not be such a far-fetched idea now, eh? hahahaha just joking, put down the knife).
wait,wait, from what I understand from the conversation that you posted:
”let’s hae another match”…”it was a great first time experience” “you were great i would do it a million times again with you”
could it be that they hung out together and played a simple video game? or maybe they played a game of paintball? or something? he said “lets have another match” maybe they played chess? maybe their just friends? I don’t see any sign of gayness in the conversation you posted 😀