My wife and I have a fantasy of sharing another guy for a mmf. But the idea of her with another man fills me with rage. I can m********* and get off on the vision of it but when we talk about trying I get mad
My wife and I have a fantasy of sharing another guy for a mmf. But the idea of her with another man fills me with rage. I can m********* and get off on the vision of it but when we talk about trying I get mad
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My wife and I are both 27. Her single female friend is 28. We have had 4 threesomes so far. My wife seems very ok with it. When the three of us get through playing, my wife and her friend go into the other room to have their fun in private. I suspect this thing between the two of them had been going on before we ever stated the threesomes. I am ok with it.
Take my word for it and don’t go through with it. If you even remotely think you will get overcome with rage, YOU WILL! I thought I would be ok with it but lost it when I watched another man take my wife and her being fine with it. It’s not at all what it seems to be.
As someone who has been involved with swinging pretty regularly for about a year and a half with no issue, I would STILL say, absolutely, if the thought of it or talking about it while looking your wife in the eyes does ANYTHING but make you both excited and happy, then you don’t do it. Don’t try it just to see. Don’t drive a wedge in a relationship just to live out a fantasy. Swinging is fun, but it’s really only sex and it is only ever as satisfying as what it does to improve or augment your sex life AND relationship with your significant other.