My husband and I have been married for six months. I REALLY wanna have a baby. But he’s terrified of having kids, and right now our finances are such that it would not be a great idea to have a kid. But part of me wants to sabotage my birth control. Part of me is upset when I start my cycle every month.
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You can’t make people do things they are not ready to do. Further, if you sabotage your birth control, you will hurt both him and a child. You should consider the child, not yourself. I suggest giving him time. You’ve only been married for 6 months. Enjoy your marriage. Besides, I doubt that he lied about his feelings about kids before the wedding. If he did, then leave. If not, then, well, you married him.