I’d like some s***** advice. I’m a lesbian, and my girlfriend is getting sad after every time we sleep together because.. Well I don’t o*****. She thinks there’s something wrong with her but actually it’s not her fault, I never had an o***** with a girl. We tried almost everything but after hours I just get tired, and don’t come. I don’t have a problem with it, I enjoy making love to her and making her o*****, even though I don’t. But I want to make her happy, I’m lost. Any advice?
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You said you’ve never had an orgasm with a girl, so I take it you’ve had one with a guy? Why not then replicate the sex you had with a guy with your girlfriend? Find what turns you on and makes you orgasm from having sex with a guy and try and replicate it as much as possible with your girlfriend. You’ve got all the positions and toys to help you. And who knows, you might find something the two of you never thought you’d enjoy.
T.A.
Try a dildo attached to her to simulate having sex with a guy.
Also have you attempted urinary orgasm? It’s a little bit uncommon but they say it’s irresistible, you can find more info on internet and give it a try…
Anyway try to find out what is missing and fill in the gap, if possible. Try a 3some if you think a guy’s presence would help, at least once – well I guess that’s not acceptable between girls anyway.
What I meant by “I’ve never had an orgasm with a girl” is that I only have by masturbating. I’ve never had anything sexual with a man. Also, I’m the “dude” in the relationship. I’m not used to being touched, because I used to be a player and I’ve always been top, no one allowed to touch me, and that’s why I don’t know what I like or dislike.. But I love her and she changed me so I’m making an exception for her. I’m a romantic person, even in bed. I like traditional positions not creepy ones that involve urine or toys or other stuff like that.. They freak me out instead of turning me on.
I can’t say I’ve had lesbian sex so I can’t really help you out of experience but all I can tell you is that there’s probably a solution out there somewhere. The internet is your key.
PS. There is another user on Simply Confess that’s also a lesbian. Let’s hope she reads this and helps you out.
T.A.
I don’t think she can help me.. Does anyone know any other site where I can ask something like that anonymously? Thanks. 🙂