I flirt with other boys when my boyfriend isn’t around and then I lie to him about it. I tell him the guy he doesn’t like, the one who’s making moves towards me, is making moves towards me when in actually, I like feeling wanted. it doesn’t bother me, because I don’t like the boy like that. I like being wanted. I like knowing I can still do things to get a guy’s head to turn for a second look, but I feel so bad. I care about my boyfriend. So much. I just can’t stop letting other boys hit on me because I like it so much..
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Why not just stop being so selfish and think about other peoples feelings for once instead of your own. You’re not a bad person. We’re all selfish attention seekers by nature but we can choose to be different. Love yourself. Know that someone always wants you. You matter to more people than you think.
You might like other things better than boys’ attention. Live your life!
Don’t listen to ^those two^. They don’t know the feeling. You know it’s wrong but it has become a habit, it feels natural. I have experience. Just know that it is not a good thing. Work yourself through. Use a remarkable thing that you will always have, willpower. You want that attention, you want to know that you can start some heads turning, some thoughts churning. Your willpower can easily push it out. Sometimes you feel as if you don’t want to push it out, though. You need to be important in someone else’s life, but more than one. It is not a good thing, however many people do the same, don’t do it.
This person above has no idea lol
what about your boyfriend? Why don’t you tell him that you need more attention from him? If he can’t satisfy your needs, either decide to give up your needs or your boyfriend for one who will keep you on your toes.