Even though I’m only 14, I want to have a girlfriend really bad. I’ve always thought of girls highly and never though they had cooties or some s*** like that when I was younger. I strive to be romantic, and even gave my special someone a freshly picked rose for Valentine’s Day. The problem is, every girl I’ve ever had affection for has either been repulsed, had a boyfriend (this bothers me especially), or stuck me in the friend zone. I’ve tried talking to my friends about this but they just think I’m stupid cause I’m relatively young. Everywhere I go at parties, in my town, and even in school, I see more and more people hugging, kissing, playing with each other. It just makes me sadder and sadder to see everyone else happy and in love while I’m alone, to the point where I’m starting to feel depressed to some extent. I don’t want s** or anything like that, I just want to be able to hold a girl in my embrace and tell her I love her. What should I do? Somebody please make me feel better. (And any people with negative comments, save it cause I’ve already heard it).
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Hey there, I know exactly what you feel because I’ve been through this. But once you’ll be older you’ll realize searching for a girl isn’t gonna help. You should go to parties in order to have fun not to get a girl, when it’s time you’re gonna be with someone who loves you and you’ll be able to hold her in front of everyone and tell her you love her. And this can happen at your age too but if it didn’t happen yet it’s okay you just have to wait and it will happen soon. You are good enough never let someone tell you other wise. Now stop over thinking, look around you , you’ll see how beautiful the world is and that a girlfriend won’t make it any better.
I’m a girl if that makes you feel better.
Good luck 🙂
You are a nice guy.
The right girl Ellen come to you at the right time.
Don’t desperate, just be patient
First off, congratulations on your intelligence! That’s very good grammar for a 14-year-old (assuming you’re telling the truth).
Secondly, you probably go to parties that people from your grade go to, right? Everyone there is also young, right? If so, trust me when I say that the hugging/kissing/grinding you see going on there is not love. Most of them are probably too young to understand how to love someone else. They’re simply horny and just going through puberty.
So relax! You’re 14! You’ve got lots of time (although I do recommend taking this time you have right now and putting it to good use i.e. school). There’s plenty of time for love later.
T.A.