My girlfriend was in a s***** relationship with a fourteen year old when she was 20. She don’t see it as a big deal and says its only 6 years difference and that even though he was younger he wasn’t much like other guys in his age group and that he was more mature etc. But no matter how many questions I ask her about it, I still don’t see why an attractive woman of that age would be f****** someone his age. She says they clicked and became close (he is the brother of one of her old friends who is her age)
Its not the end of the world that it happened (I think she’s great) But I do find it a bit strange as I just don’t see what she could possibly have been getting out of it as it went on for over a year.
I gotta wonder what people’s reactions (AND HERS) would be if it were me who was f****** a 14 year old girl when I was 20.
Somehow I think it would be a very big deal indeed!