My husband had an affair. We are still married but I have really bad trama over it. i regret taking him back. I’d rather be alone than worry about every move he makes. I no longer respect him. People here seem to yjink betrayal is a joke or just a s***** urge they just have to give in to. Cheating says volumes of the person cheating, I think anyhow. Cheating isn’t a joke especially when kids are involved. They are the ones that really suffer due to one persons selfishness. I’d rather he just left if he was unhappy. The thing is he didn’t act any different during affair then before or now. It’s over and it’s been over-I guess trying to work it out made me realize he the one that pissed on our marriage not me.