People who base their happiness and worth off of how much in love with someone they are are pathetic. You don’t need a lover to have value in this world. Get over it. You are still capable of doing SO much more without a lover.

Look for friends, not lovers. Lovers always have the potential to break your heart. Way more often than friends. Real friends won’t leave you because they don’t expect anything from you except to be their friend. Lovers are too strict and expect too much of each other. That’s the problem with it.