I just dumped the guy I wanted to love me because he was incapable of offering me any kind of kindness. He was stingy, rude and had no respect for me. My roommate would walk through fire for me. He has said as much. I am as attracted to him as I would be a turd in a punchbowl. The thought of us together literally makes me wretch. This is not a “give him a chance” situation. My affections are mine to give to whom I choose and he ain’t it. I am eager to keep my affections to myself for awhile. A long while.
