I am unavailable for a relationship right now for so many reasons (none of these reasons include “already in a relationship,” because I’m not) and I’m not one for casual dating or hooking up. But for the first time in my life (I’m 22) I’m starting to love flirting. I think it’s because I always want what I can’t have, or I know that if someone rejects me at least it’s not like I have time for them anyway, or something along those lines. Anyway, I feel horrible about it, because I feel really bad about it, and feel like I’m being a floozy, even though I’m not technically leading anyone on (not going on dates, not asking for anyone to buy me a drink, not telling anyone they are s***/cute/hot, etc).