He doesn’t say anything to me that makes me feel unattractive but his interest in me s******* has begun to die off. This happened last time too. I know s** is not the most important thing in a relationship but it does matter if the other person find you attractive and wants to have s** with you. Otherwise we might as well be friends. I want to flirt and play with him and remind him how s*** I think he is, but he doesn’t do that for me. When he wants to have s**, there is no foreplay and I know when we have s** we won’t again for a few days. It has gone from s** everyday sometimes multiple times and we were still new again so I understand not having that anymore, to s** every other day, to maybe 2-3 times a week, and it keeps getting less. I do love him, but sometimes I don’t feel like he wants me anymore. There is never anything I can do to get him h****, it just doesn’t matter if I drop to my knees and give him a b******* anywhere. He will chuckle and keep going like nothing happened. Seeing me naked doesn’t faze him. Maybe I should move on and go back to just friends with him if he doesn’t find me attractive anymore. I don’t need s** all the time, just him reminding me he thinks I’m s*** would be enough. And if this is already happening again what is it going to be like in a year? I don’t need him to jump my bones everyday, but every once in a while knowing he wants me right then. Not just he could take it or leave it, it doesn’t matter. It hurts my feelings to know he doesn’t really care one way or the other. He only wants me badly when we are new or a secret or not together at all.
