I’m a young mother of one and don’t have any idea of what to do…
My child’s father is 15 years older than me (he got me pregnant when I was underage). He is a little messed up, has an ex wife that fucked him over, and he served in the army.

We are ‘taking a break’ because he drunkenly decided to text and email chicks off of craigslist while I was visiting family. Things are okay for now and we had been planning on getting a place where we would have separate bedrooms but could still raise our child together.

Everyone is telling me to leave him. To just cut him out of my life and forget him, but i cant because he has every right to see and be a part of his kids life. I don’t know if our relationship should be over or not though.

And perfect timing, two of my exes from back in high school popped back into my life wanting to get together with me knowing full well i have a child now. They have seriously talked to me about being with them and moving in with them, not that they plan on taking care of us, I’m expected to work and pull my weight which is something i 100% agree with.

I just have no idea what i’m doing or whats the best choice for my child. All i want in life is for him to be happy, healthy, and taken care of.