I did have something with a married woman, we kissed and then skyped for a year. We did not believe we would ever be together, she has a husband and 2 kids. I stopped the connection because I did not want to be part of something that could hurt a lot of people.
I have no contact with her since, And I do not want to.
But in the end he found out, or she told him I don’t know. Now he is raging against me. I can understand. He is in pain. I am not completely guilty yet I played a part in this. I should not have done it. We both new it was wrong.

Of course I can play the blame game, and think that their marriage was bad anyway and that if it wasn’t me it would have been someone else.

But it was not someone else, it was me. And I regret it.