I was bullied many years ago. I’d love to forgive and forget, but I still want to kill the sob. I find it impossible to let it go. I’ve tracked him over the years, know where he works, view his facebook page, etc. and would relish the opportunity to meet him again, but now have too much to lose if things went south. How do you give up something that caused so much pain and agony in the past? Like Dexter, this is my “dark passenger.”