i kinda get excited about planning my sister’s baby shower, then I remember that it’s an unplanned pregnancy as a result of her total irresponsibility and the fact that she hasnt held down a steady job in years, is currently out of work, and has shown no effort to try and get a job, all the while living with our mom who is working hard to support them both. It’s not like she’s a teenager- she’s over 30- but she acts like a teenager, so it feels jut as bad. It’s really hard to be happy knowing that she’s most likely going to throw the baby off on someone else, except when it suits her, and expect everyone to take care of her and the baby.