Your idea that people who have been abandoned or abused by a parent/guardian makes them weak sickens me. As someone who was abandoned by a parent, I can tell you that I am not weak. I am not defined by their absence. I am a functioning person in the world. Most people don’t even know that that parent isn’t in my life, unless they’re someone I’ve trusted to tell. It is people like you who spread this idea that people who are abandoned or abused are weak and in need of protection or help, that they can’t function without someone to care for them or love them and it is harmful. Please I beg of you, please stop spreading your misinformation.