My wife is an inconsiderate pig. I try to keep the house picked up so there isn’t crap everywhere. It drives me insane that she’ll take something out or eat all or most of a specific food item. I have asked her time and time again to please pick up after herself or put the dirty dishes in the sink and let them soak so I don’t have to scrub them. And she complains about how she has gained weight and doesn’t feel s*** even though I tell her she is gorgeous and I try to make her feel that way. Up until last week she didn’t even have a job and I was the only one going to work. After an 8+ hour day at work I don’t want to have to clean up when she has been home all damn day and could have done it. I’m not saying I want the house spotless, I just want to not feel like I live in a pig stye. The worst part is I get so angry because the house is messy that I tend to take it out on her and the pets. I feel so bad that I do that but I don’t know how to tell her how I feel without her getting upset and telling me that I am acting like her mother. I love this woman so much but she needs to grow up and learn to not leave the house a mess.