My husband has become so selfish. With money, with expecting me to bend over backwards doing things for him while doing almost nothing in return, with s**…
Rather, he doesn’t even want s** half as much as he used to, all he seems to want is me going down on him. The s** we do have, is over in minutes. It never used to be this way… He used to care, used to go out of his way to make sure I am satisfied too. It’s all about him now, and it’s really been getting to me lately.
It’s not like I’m unattractive, I have barely showed any signs of aging in our years together, haven’t gained weight. I’m over 30, and still have high school aged boys checking me out. It’s not like I don’t put out, I love s** and would be quite happy with s** every day or at least every other… but the husband initiates nothing unless it’s trying to stick his d*** in my mouth.
I don’t want to leave him, I do love him truly and to consider leaving just over this would be petty. I just don’t know why he’s become such a selfish prick, and what I can do about it, if anything. It’s making me feel rather used and as though he just doesn’t desire me anymore, even though he insists he does. Any time I try talking with him about it he just gets this guilty reaction about him but has yet to change anything about the situation.