I don’t love you scott but if we had met 10 years ago i think we would have had a great relationship. i guess i could try with you but i dont really want to now. your married with children and lets face it the best years of your career and life are over. you live too far away and your not my ideal. i can only feel disappointed of what could have been. i think that should make it clear to you when I say dont expect me to be your safetynet after marriage and career failure.