I am married but I have a friend of the opposite s** that I can’t stop thinking about! Not only am I physically attracted to this person but the conversations we have are amazing!! I have fantasized about divorce and the pursuit of this other person…. And I don’t feel guilty about those fantasies. I do feel guilty however when I’m around this other person… As if us looking directly at one another for too long while conversing will give something (that has never even happened) away to other people who are around.