So there is this guy who is a year older than me (I’m in 9th grade). And a week or two ago I found out that he wanted to get to know me and he wanted my number. The problem is I haven’t dated anyone yet I haven’t even gotten my first kiss yet. One of my friends told me that he only wants to date me to hook up with me. I don’t do that type of s***, I want a really relationship. Some of my friends tell me to go for it others say he is a douche. Then one of my guy friends told me that the guy texted him a paragraph about me and how it was so cute. Now I’m going to admit the guy is hot but I don’t know him well enough. He has a lip and eyebrow piercing and apparently “he drinks and smokes weed”. Apparently he is to shy to come up to me and I’m afraid if he does my face is going to turn as red as a tomato. I really have no idea what to do…