I am currently in a sort of fix involving three ladies.

The first one is someone who I have been seeing for about six months. Since about November of 2013. The relationship has been tumultuous, and we have broken up and gotten back together more times than I can remember. She recently (this week) found inappropriate messages between me and girl number two. She descended into a rage and I feel as if the relationship is over. I was at her house last night to apologize and I feel like I never got through to her. I am stuck on this situation as I have no idea what to do.

Girl Number two is someone I met recently at a friend’s birthday party. We seemed to hit it off from the second we met and she seems like someone I would like to get to know. Our personalities seem to click. We’ve been chatting almost continuously ever since her birthday. She may have cost me a 6 month relationship; which of course she has no idea about.

Girl number three is an ex from a relationship that ended about October of 2013. She still wants to pursue a relationship with me, even after there was so much hurt and pain the first time around. I don’t want to hurt her again; she really deserves better. She’s on a spiritual journey and has found God. She’s become a staunch Christian and wants to include me in church activities.

I really don’t know what to do.