I’m having dirty thoughs about friend and i’m in a long term serious relationship. I’m as weirded out. I could be with this friend but our long term dreams are different. I main thing is I want kids and he doesn’t so even having a relationship with this friend wouldn’t work. And I do love my loved-one and they want kids. but. . .this friend keeps poping into my mind and the urges are strong. . . . I do not know.