My ex boyfriend ditched me and four days later he was already with another girl. A girl he had told me he didn’t even talk to anymore.
Of course I cared. Of course it hurt. But just that first day that I got to know. Those first couple of hours.

Then it just made me laugh.

And later I started getting confused…

What’s up with guys? I mean, why do they do this kind of things? He shows me he cares. He takes me out. He’s romantic and nice. He’s cute. He’s almost like the “prince charming” most girls dream of… and then… BOOM! Something so weird, so… unexpected happens.

He breaks up with me to go out with his ex girlfriend.

One month later he wants me back… And no, the whole thing didn’t happen cause I wasn’t putting out because I was more than willing. But there wasn’t much time at first, that’s all. Besides, we had only been together for one month. (but come on, we clicked on all levels)

I’m over it now. But sometimes I feel like I need closure… like I need to go up to him and ask what the f*** did he expect me to do after all he did ? NOT get over him and move on with my life ? Why would he get disappointed at the fact that I met other people and didn’t just sit there and wait for him ?

But of course, I would never ask him anything.

I just gotta say that guys… seriously… stop messing around. It’s not nice. You think it’s fun, but the real fun lies where there are no hidden agendas… no plots to get some chick into bed… no plans on how to date two or more girls at the same time…
And okay, let’s say you’re not ready for a serious relationship. Fine. Some girls (most of them) don’t mind that. But at least be CLEAR about what you want.
No serious attachments ever?! Deal.
Might change your mind later?! Fine with me.

Just make up your damn f****** mind.

We are not toys.

K.B.