So, I have been on and off with my boyfriend for 7 years now. I love him, but now I feel like it’s just in a good friend kind of way. I’m not s******* attracted to him anymore, and I want to end it, but I’m not sure how to tell him since we’ve went back and forth so many times. Also, he has an older brother, who I have fantasized about numerous times, and more frequently lately. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like if my current boyfriend and I broke up, and I hooked up with his brother. I would feel terrible, but his brother and I are more of a match and always have been!! What a mess.