I sent my violent, out of control 12 year old daughter to temporarily stay with her grandparents in order to keep my younger children safe from her violent rages….. Her grandparents think her behavior is MY fault for “just not loving her enough.” They are giving her whatever she wants, taking her on extravagant vacations, and refusing to let me talk to her. I feel like my daughter has been kidnapped, but am afraid to say something to them, in case they send her home, as we will all be in danger from her again. I am hurting inside and caught between a rock and a hard place!!!