to the dude who who thought he was gay until he fell in love with a girl. its alright s******** is a spectrum, the way you identified before may not be how you identify now. mabye your bi or something. probably gonna be confusing to figure out but thats alright. be honest with her your self and the people around, but also make sure to do that in your own time. just cause you identified as gay doesnt mean your suddenly not into men still, could just mean you like women as well now as much as you like men, your just figuring s*** out. of corse im not you so i cant say what your feelings are only you know what your feelings are.