This isn’t scandalous or anything
Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and we’re planning to start trying for a baby the begining of 2023, we aren’t gonna do anything if it happens before then because we both got our dream jobs that pay well and give us great schedules for also pursuing extra hobbies etc. He’s an EMT and I’m a medical dispatcher for the same company so we really are doing well.
But we recently had an accident (I haven’t been taking birth control he knows so weve been using condoms but you know how it goes) and as much as he says it obviously won’t upset him if it turns out I’m pregnant because of it, I know he’d prefer if we both got fully adapted to our new jobs first.
But I’ve really been hoping it would happen. I won’t do anything to tamper anything because that’s absolutely awful. But I procrastinated getter better condoms even after we realized the ones we got were working improperly because I was actually hoping there would be multiple incidents where it would just not work properly and I’d get pregnant.
It’s not the worst because he won’t be mad and I bug him all the time so he KNOWS I would love to get pregnant now and he’s not COMPLETELY opposed to it happening now.
But God I hope it turns out I’m pregnant.

I would never tell anyone cause it’ll make me sound kind of crazy, but hey my excuse is he originally told me we would start trying in October before we got our new jobs SOOOO.