We have a lot if money. We don’t live an extravagant life but it is clear if you know us we aren’t struggling. We are now about to sell a property and reap quite a bit of gain from it. I cannot tell anyone esp my family because it would be the tipping point for 3 of them to just come rig out and ask for money. One of them deserves help and wouldn’t ask for it but my mom would push me to help her. Then my mom would push me to help HER. Then my other sis would outright ask for 5 figures. Oh wait then my mom in law would want some. And it makes me angry because other than the one sis that deserves it the rest of them spend their money irresponsibly. And I don’t feel like I should have to cover their b*** because of that. My sis once charged plastic surgery then a couple of yrs later asked me to pay off the credit card. ‘ cause you have like, tons of money!’ Because we work for it!!