I have s** with men and like it, I feel guilty about liking it so much and not that I should feel bad about it, variety of men, some married, some one night stands from a bar, some random men I know from work or church. I know they just want me for s**, and I can have that power. My friend is the same way, the secrets we keep, but the blackmail we could unleash is worse.. They are at our mercy, and that is POWER.