I confess that I am in love with my soon-to-be ex wife’s best friend. I am a close friend of hers as well. However she just started dating this guy who is nice (at least he gives this appearance since it is the beginning of three relationship) but a loser. He has a bad job, is uneducated, is free loading, and has delusional tendencies. It pains me to see her with someone, especially a loser that is just going to take advantage of her. I want to protect her. But she barely acknowledged my existence. I guess you can say she only really contacts me when she needs something. I know I am being used but I don’t care. I love her and I am happy to help her. So now I sit here broken hearted, alone, and feeling hopeless and helpless. Maybe I am a loser too. Even though I have a full time job with benefits and my own car, perhaps I am more of a loser than this other guy.