Not to be rude or mean or anything, just something I want to get off my chest.

I am not what people would call “anti-social”, neither am I a very socially active person. I would say I’m in the middle. I would enjoy hanging out with close friends sometimes but not too often… I have a friend who is very socially active. Whenever he host an event or gathering, he would surely invite me as well. But the problem is, I’m not close to many of his friends. I do know a few, but they are the kind of friends you usually say hi and bye to, the so-called “hi-bye friend”. i know he’s being kind and friendly to include me in his gatherings, but I really think it’s a waste of time attending it. I would usually just sit aside while they chat as I’m not part of their gang and don’t really have any topic to talk about. It’s really a waste of time. I would just end up sitting together with a couple of my close friends and the group will just split into a few small gangs…

After attending a few of these events, i would usually just make up an excuse to avoid attending it. But it may seem rude and kind of make me the anti-social kind of guy…

I just want to say, if you are hosting an event or a gathering, invite those that matters only. For instance, I would want to spend my birthdays with close friends rather than a big group consisting of those who i only met once or twice…

I know many of you might feel weird about this and also makes me a weirdo, but I’m glad i got this off my chest 🙂