I mean hes not technically doing anything WRONG. There’s nothing inherently wrong with using somebody you love. Take dogs for an example. You love your dog, and your dog loves you. You use your dog for emotional support, and your dog uses you for survival. As long as everybody involved is happy, nothing wrong has happened. You want to use me for emotional support and I want to use you for s**. Why dont we comrpomise and both of us can use each other for emotional support AND s**?